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Do you need INSTANT chemistry, no, not necessarily. If they don’t feel it then they’ll discount the person completely. I have met only a few people who I’ve had instant chemistry with and I thought for sure that they would be a long term item in my life, but, as it happened, chemistry wasn’t enough. The opposite is true, I’ve had some great relationships with people I didn’t feel instant chemistry with. Some guys I just “didn’t feel it” the first date, but I was still interested so I gave it a couple more dates and we definitely had something good and built some chemistry as we went along. Good relationships are the product of building a solid foundation of trust, love, honesty, respect, consideration, generosity, passion and attraction. Good relationships are two people walking in the same direction, together, side by side. So if people actually made an effort and let go of their unrealistic expectations perhaps there would be more successful relationship out there. I think that if you have attraction and a general interest in the person then I think you should give it a shot. The problem with today’s dating world is that people are looking for that initial spark, the WOW when they first meet someone. R) but we both definitely felt a connection, after a couple of dates it fizzled. Now some people you’ll go out with and they’re a definite NO and that’s OK. You didn’t want to jump their bones but they were an interesting date. If you think that your date is too intense, you may be right.Many people struggle with being overly intense, and if you are dating someone like this you may feel pressured to start a relationship before you are ready.If you like someone a lot it is normal to think about future dates together, but your date may be overly intense if they are trying to plan events that are months away, such as holidays or festivals.This is negative behaviour as it puts pressure on you to verbally commit to long-term plans, when in reality you should just be taking it a day at a time until you are certain that you are ready to be in a relationship.And with the cloak of anonymity the net provides, it’s never been easier to be unfaithful.‘The internet has opened up this sense of “Where do I stop? ‘In previous generations, people met a partner and accepted they wouldn’t be perfect in every aspect, but internet dating is like a chocolate box that never stops giving.
You meet someone and it’s like you were hit by train. We’ve all been there and felt like that’s it, this is THE ONE. But after one serious heartbreak and hundreds of pounds spent on subscription fees, love still eludes her.‘In many ways, internet dating is a great way to meet people, but it’s such a whirlwind of highs and lows,’ she says.‘I’ve met some lovely men, but I’ve also met many who lied about themselves and their intentions.’Her experiences are mirrored by many women, who find that internet dating is great if you want a casual fling, but not for anything longer lasting because there are so many dishonest men seeking cheap thrills.This is normal behaviour, but sometimes overly intense people can skip this part and go straight to showing every part of themselves – including the negative parts, such as anger, bitterness and hopelessness.You have only been dating for a while but they are already implying that they have very strong feelings for you.